A time for friends...

Ever imagined a life alone,with no friends to give you a company?? you could try staying like that for two days but i bet you can't go on for more than a week..

Friends play an important role in our lives..sometimes,busy times hit us soo hard that we drown in our own lives and forget about all those who made our life perfect. They might be longing for your calls,for your scraps and your msgs,don't let them down..a single 'miss you' of yours can bring a sweet smile on their faces,a hug of yours can cheer them up

I remember those school days where me n ma best friend S used to play pranks..ours was a difficult relation.We fought whole day for silly reasons and in the  evening went home,hand in hand..noone couldn't ever replace her.You can have plenty of friends,who practically know nothing about you or can have a few friends who can even understand you in every state of ya life and will be there for you always..

*it happened to 2 of ma friends!!

There might be times when 2 close friends liked the same guy,but didn't tell each other..but only later,came to know that he was already engaged.

let me dramatise the situation,like if it was me n S..

me:   yar,im really sad..:(

S:      so am i i da,what hapend to you?

me:   see i liked this guy(some name),was crazy about him and now i came to know he is engaged!

S:      (shocked) itz ok dear..we can't find someone else better.cheer up da

          well,me 2 liked the same guy,ha,never mind:(

me:    oh,shit..ha,leav it :(

S:       well,he don't look much good..i don't like his eyes

me:    i don't lik it either..he is not tall enough!

both giggle...:)

S:       lets go and have an ice cream

me:    ya da,i want a cornetto..

*the end of all ya senti feelings !! 

Don't ever lose them,they can make you cry,can get you in trouble,can make you lose your nerves,can screw you up..but you can never be really angry on them,you always had enjoyed those moments...they are the only ones who can vanish your tensions..who can raise your spirits and ever won't let others to speak a single word bad, about you..So if you haven't called your friends for long,itz time to tell them that how much they mean to you!! 

 And this is for all ma dear friends...thanks for being with me,for understanding me,for tolerating me..and please, you can shout at me,you can hit me..but don't ever leav me,don't even dare!

can't imagine a life without you guyz.. tu nahi ho tho kaun hey mera??love you all..:)

#update:

every1 has a best friend during each stage of lyf..only lucky 1ns have d same friend in all stages of life!

Feeling blue?

I was feeling really down..there was no support,no inspiration and all negative thoughts were running on ma mind.I felt lik flying off somewhere,tired of this life,tired of these ups and downs..

people randomly fall to this state i guess,all of a sudden you feel all lost,you are damn angry or damn tensed,you feel like watever you are thinking and doing is going wrong..feel lik plucking of ya hair from ya head,am i exaggerating a bit? well i had 3/4th of these emotions and the state is really awful! 

i read a hell lot of novels, horror stories,adventures,personality stuffs and all.but i never ever went through books on positive thinking.My brother R a huge fan of these, brought plenty of such stuffs and they were all lying in my shelf, untouched!! i was all nutz and i wanted a change. i went through one of those...norman vincent peale...why some positive thinkers get powerful results

there was around 168 pages,i dint feel lik reading it all and i juz ran through the pages..and in one of the pages ,i found these lines..

i read them once and i felt like reading them again and i found them special..i thought of sharing it with you guys

i like me..i believe in me

i was created by god who never made anything badly..

his creation is wonderful

so i am wonderful..

divine perfection is within me

i love life,i love people

i have ability,i can do things well

i am happy,i am grateful

i treat maself with respect

as a child of god i belive in me..

doesn't that make you feel good..it certainly rose ma spirits.Mr.Norman belives that if you sent out negative thoughts,they will return back to you..but if you sent out robust thoughts of faith,hope and optimism,positive thoughts will come surging back..so i keep ma fingers crossed,with positive thoughts filling ma mind and soul..

 And if ya feel like hearing some cool music to refresh yourself,check out when it rains from paramore. dedicated to djj,who gives me the list of his favorite tracks to tune in2.. cheers:)

Personality traits # 2- what do your eyes convey?

Ma first post was about personality traits and here comes a little bit of body language-it is with the way we look at people.Eyes are considered to show emotion,but do they really show that? i feel that the emotional impact of eyes occurs because of their use and the use of face around them.

With the length of glance,opening of eyelids,by squiting ..any meaning can be sent out

* with unfamiliar people- it is better  not to stare at  them.but to make them into people rather than objects  we must avoid ignoring them. generally we look at them ,not long enough with our eyes conveying ..i know you are there but i dont wanna intrude into your privacy.

*on passing encounter-when we meet someone while passing the street,we give a quick look at them,then turn our face down or away.this gives a message that,i have seen you and im not afraid of you

*suppose you are wearing these dark glares with the intention that you can stare as much you feel like and no one would know that you are on watch,itz just a  mere self deception .To the other person,dark glares indicate that the wearer is always staring at him...so better dont walk  around with dark glares!

*in trains and buses- we meet lots of people..we look them briefly without locking glances..here we say with our looks that..i dont know who you are but i dont intend to stare at you

so be carefull with ya looks..will come up with more of this kind soon,hope you guys liked it.chill out dudes!

do i luk as if i care?

 Don't give me your fake promises

 i know they don't worth a penny..

 

don't tell me that you can't be with me anymore

just wana remind you that u were never there..

don't think that i will cry for you

i won't even shed a single tear...

don't try to walk ahead of me

i wil be always a step ahead of you ...

don't tell me to get lost

i have already flown away far from you..

don't make silly reasons

i know they are all lies..

don't tell me that it was all your mistake

as if you were never wrong...

and don't tell me that i dumped you

 you worth it!!

#it was written when there was no power at ma home,i had nothing to do and i was all nutz...

A smal bus journey of mine...

i love travelling alone..and after much days i really got to travel alone in a bus.bus journey is fun,if  you closely observe you can see a variety of people with different characters.Some of them gain your attention by their attitude like getting inside the bus pushing every1 off..some bcz of their dressing style..n some with their charming looks. the journey was lovely with the breeze touching ma cheeks and the wind blowing off ma hair,i felt like touching the blue sky above

After 10 mints or so..a lady got in along with a kid,the kid was sleeping hugging her tight.from the first sight i felt that she is a nurse  working abroad..i couldn't see the kids face.After few minutes the kid got up..he was such a lovely boy with red cheeks,he looked foreign..he was looking all around with half opened eyes.i was looking at the kid,he saw me looking..wel he took of his eyes immedaiatly. i thot.."hey,this kid got the attitude ya!

how cute kids are nah?they just take off your mind from everything happening around and we just drown ourselves in them.. 

1 lady got in along with 2 young girls..i just noticed 1 gal..she was a bit short and was finding it difficult to balance in the bus.i was siting in the side seat and after few minutes she was almost falling on me. she was cute n lil gundu type.but her eyes was having some problems and i realised only after some time that she was blind.

she was smiling to all and i felt sad seeing her.i really thanked god for giving me vision and i really dint mind even if it was a lil blurred! i had to get dwn @ the next stop..and i wanted her 2 sit in ma place,there was a huge rush in the bus.ma stop was about to arrive and this gal immediatly went towards the steps..i was blank for a sec,her mom shouted.."wer are you rushing to? i told you nah" n blah blah..her voice was very rough and i dint find the slightest affection in her words..

poor gal,she was almost in tears..i got down and finally she too.i couldn't do anything i just watched her till she was out of reach,she walked in hands with her sister. i feel that the blind should be given proper care and attention,just ignoring them won't do...so that they will be able to live by their own,nowadays a no of blind people are living by earning themselves.i still pity that kerala having the highest literacy rate still have people who dont bother to take care of their kids no matter they are handicaped or in proper health..

What is Life?

Life..i feel it is something which leaves you totally blank the more you think about it.At some point of life were everything is going fine and all set,you will have to  leave all those and catch up  ya flight to heaven or hell,dat is a choice which you have 2 make down here..people say life is what you make of it

In ya young stage your priorities will be your studies,small little crushes,friends.From that stage life suddenly takes you to the tension of finding jobs and onnce you get a job,the politics over there is the other problem you are gonna face.

from there you are taken to a state of gambling,i mean choosing partner which is a hell lot of trouble. It is like if you have the luck you choose the right one  else itz all gone..from that stage you become a parent,again the tension of raising a child,his studies,his job,his affairs,his marriage,his kids....

so wat exactly are you doing? you are just repeating the same situation of ya life..then comes a stage of health problems and finally nirvana! all life has got a common ending.even though we can't control the happenings of our life,we can atleast try to keep others cheerful through our lives.one day we will have to face all the problems which we fear,we will have to loose all those which we love,dat is life..totally uncertain!

but if we get all those if we desire,face no tensions,then what is the risk factor? life becomes all boring then.Striving to live is the best part of life.if we can go to our death beds with no fear,we have no regrets about our life.But often people "grow old" with age but forget to "grow up"..so guyz live ya life to the fullest,making the best of every moment and it will turn out beautiful..live and n love it

I wana b a kid...:(

After a hell lot of work at ma home,i am sick...i am dust allergic and im sneezing like anythng now.My nose  is burning and my eyes are watery,well no big deal..

me:    momie,im sick

mom: get some tablets, you willl be fine...

me:    mom,can you sit beside me?

mom: no,you get some sleep

me:    mom,i am still a kid nah?

mom: stop kidding around

*the  end

remember those school days when you get sick,how happy you get thinking...thank god,i can quit school today and you get your mom siting next to you,giving you a teddy to hug,teling you "babe you willl be allright"..oh,i love that. nowadays being in college where you can bunk anyday, getting sick is no fun..it is like," man,i am sik..oh,i hate ds"

i loved bunking classes during  my school days and i became quite an expert in it during my plus 1..i had become a visiting proff.,dats how my teachers used to call me.

My mom used to tease me telling that i cried the  first day  of my school..i told that see mom, i din't want to cry,i cried only because i saw others crying and i thought all have to cry..well,thanx mom..you gave me something 2 post on. 

i  wanna b a kid,it is of no fun living the life of an adult with responsibilities and tensions..though im no longer a kid,im still a kid at heart!!

rock on dudez